Today was a significant and sad day for us Torres5 and TorresBabies17…one year ago today, Mama had made her decision to stop her dialysis treatments and we then knew that it was a matter of time, we were unsure of how long, that she would no longer be with us. I have to give it to Dad, he has made it a point to honor Mama in small, yet profound, ways. He made a beautiful garden in her honor and, what he did during the last couple of days really made us all feel so much better!
Dad, along with the help of our famfriend Mary Rangel Hernandez and sis Kiki, got the ball rolling to remodel and paint the kitchen. He chose yellow and asked them to match the yellow of one of Mama’s famous flowered plates. The minute I walked in and saw this, my thoughts instantly flew to Mama! The kitchen looks great and I also love how he kept the little shelf above the sink with some of the little things that she always had wherever she was: her little clock that she always needed to see whenever she would lay down, there was this silver thing, looked like a bolt of some kind, and Mama used it as a paperweight in her lil table like forever, the sugar bowls that we had since forever, some of the lil shot glasses that we would use to put her medicine in, at least I did, so that she wouldn’t drop the pills since she took so many😦 Just seeing these things make us feel instantly comforted. Love the new sink and counters too!
Like most rooms in the house, one side belongs to Mom and the other side belongs to Daddy. These bottles are, of course, his and love that they found a way to display them. Most of these are gifts from his 80th Birthday party. But we don’t really need these kinds of ‘spirits’ to keep our spirits up LOL, we do need, love and appreciate, our Dad’s efforts to keep our familia together, happy and smiling. Sure, we may have sad days but thank God we have Mike Torres to steady us and keep us going when things get tough for us without Mama. I do not know what we would have done this past year without him. God Bless him!