What a great feeling. It’s like all of the stars line up, all of your ducks are in a row, all is as it should be. all is perfect, everything is crystal clear, there is a reason for this madness, you understand everything. For a split-second. And then it all comes crashing back to you, all of your fears, all of your mistakes, all of your regadas, all of your pendejadas, all up in your face. You feel defeated, like you’ve taken 10 steps back, you’re angry, sad and mad all at once.
As I was driving home a couple of weeks ago, I experienced this exact same sensation. I remember that it was a cloudy afternoon and my eye focused on the part of the sky that had broken free from the clouds, where you could see the blue of the sky piercing through the gray clouds. When I looked into that blue spot, it was as if a part of my heart opened up, the purest part, the part that was open to new experiences and the part that did not allow me to hold myself back, the part where I was unafraid. It was as if I was thinking in overdrive: I started thinking of and seeing Mama, happy and alive, seeing my family members and friends happy and productive, myself fearless and working toward my goals, I could even hear music in that blue sky, and it was like all of these happy feelings were swirling around in the sky, happily blending together. I was even crying tears of happiness and all felt right in my world.
And then I stopped looking at the blue sky and it all faded away. Try as I could, I was unable to get that feeling back again. It was like I got afraid, afraid to see what life would be like in that swirl of happiness. I totally got into my own way and messed things up big time. Now I’m trying to figure out how to get back to that place.
As I don’t feel like super-analyzing this experience today…I’ll just let my InnerChingona give her two cents on this moment: While I’m getting better, I’m not there yet, it’s very hard for me to trust anything new, no matter how positive it is and no matter how much good it will do for me. I’ve got to keep working on staying the hell out of my own way and just let things be! I need to handle this mess before moving on the next phase in my life.
That I was able to have a glimpse, albeit a small glimpse, into what my life can be motivates me to keep working at getting this heavy desmadre of baggage out of my way so that the blue sky does not fade away when the clouds of life appear, and you know that clouds will always come back. I also like that I have finally been able to see the blue through the clouds, even for a few seconds.
It has been a long time.